At first,
they try to shower love on you. They pretend to be nice and kind towards you,
but deep down there, they desire no good for you. Not all friends are bad, but
there are few hypocrite and pretenders among them. They are the ones that become
sad when you do things better than they do. They are the ones that feel sad for
no concrete reason when they hear you did something they couldn’t do.
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They are the
ones that swiftly, but only, give you a call when they heard you did something
great and remarkable. Be careful because they didn’t call to celebrate with
you. They did just to confirm if the news they heard was true or not. They get
sick when they heard you did something they know they wouldn’t achieve in their
life time,
but they get excited when they heard something bad happen to you.
You need not
to be perturbed and daunted by their attitude. You don’t need to hate them,
neither do you need to snub, scorn nor discard them. The most important thing
is for you to be sensitive enough to detect them among your company. Learn to
deal with them wisely.
Any attempt
you make to do something good gives them an inexplicable aches. Don’t mind
them, don’t mind their attitude. Be their friends and embrace them with your
whole heart, but remember to draw a line towards them and be mindful what you tell them
per time.
Some of them
often advise you when things go wrong for you. They are always right there to
sympathize with you when things are rough. That is what they are good at; it is
what gives them joy. When they give you 1001 reasons to cry, give them
1,000,001 reasons to smile. Be sensitive enough to know them. If it is
possible, let them know 95% of the bad things that happen to you, but give them
5% of the good news you have. It is not that you are naive; it is not that you
are afraid of them. It is for you to have a breather space to continue your
progression without distractions.
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EBUNOLUWA FADAIRO
6 comments
Very incisive social analogy. It is well said. Some check on you not because they want to but to track how you moved so far.
The gist now should be how do you know them
The gist now should be how do you know them
You don't need to search for them. Those closest to you are your worst enemies.
had the worst experience recently. fake people acting like they want u to succeed not knowing that they are only comfortable with you falling and always begging and helpless. i am happy i found out early enough to bounce before they messed up my thinking. at the moment no rat's poo given.
had the worst experience recently. fake people acting like they want u to succeed not knowing that they are only comfortable with you falling and always begging and helpless. i am happy i found out early enough to bounce before they messed up my thinking. at the moment no rat's poo given.
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