Though they
pretend to be friends, your failure gladdens them. You need not to be afraid of
them because if you must reach the zenith of your dream, enemies would
certainly be part of the adventure.
life are few.
Do you know
what the enemies of your progress want? Do you know what gives them joy? It
is the fact that they want you and them to remain at the same pace or the same
horizon of life. They don’t want you to go above them; seeing you behind is
what will give them an unspeakable joy. Close your eye at this moment and try
to picture them; they are right there in your family; they are among your close
allies and friends, they are in your place of work; your household; your
mosques or churches, to mention a few. So tell me: how on earth can you do
without them? But the ability to use them as your stepping stones and impetus
would take you to places. This would be the best response to their hypocritical
deeds.
The
backbiters and gossipers of your progress will continue to do so when you are
on the right path. They would speak well about you when you are around, but
behind you, it is the opposite that fill their mouth. You need not to despair
about what you accidentally overheard them saying about you, but rather embrace
them and take a positive out of every conspiracy against you. They won’t talk
about you if you are nobody. Except you, yourself, aren’t sure where you are
destined to be, you would be daunted or perplexed by their questionable loyalty
towards you.
Sometimes a
“stupid-like pretense” is what you
need to stay or live successfully with them, "if you must win". You can’t afford to discard
them for myriads of reasons. The ability to live with them without being
intimated is called wisdom. How much wisdom have you got inside of you to
embrace them, even when you know these people have just one intention (which is
your “FALL”) for you?
Have you
ever thought about the fact that you need your enemies more than you do your
friends, for you to progress and succeed in life? Your friends will most times
motivate you verbally when you are down, but most times they fail to bluntly correct
you because of the respect they have got for you. Watch out for the episode 2
of this topic. Coming out soon.
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This is just what happens in life and it's very unfortunate some of us youths know this but find it hard to accept. Good work OP
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