Hug deposits into the
account of friendship;
Hug gives freedom;
Hug mends broken
relationship;
Hug seals affection;
Hug breaks and
inflict pain in your haters heart;
Hug heals;
Hug gives courage
and humility;
Is your friendship on the verge of destruction? Are you
losing your relationship or you have lost one already, but you are ready to
bring it back to life? Are you trying to mend your partnership that is
destroyed? Are you indebted to someone
or you are trying to win over your
haters/enemies? Are you seeking for forgiveness or you are finding it difficult
to forgive someone? Are you trying to express your feelings or trying to seal
an affection? If you fall in any of the following categories, then this content
is meant for you.
There is more to a hug than we know. The power of hug cannot
be exhausted. It is sometime beyond our literary view and understanding. Some
say love is magical, but the truth is hug is more charming. Hug is the outward
and the last expression of love that only the most courageous people do, even
when they are wounded beyond repair (forget about the Love-Me-I-Love-you hug).
(1) Hug deposits into the
account of friendship: depositing into friendship account is not the
literary bank account deposit. It means creating more reason to be indebted to.
A hug passes a serious message to a friend on how much you love and regard the
person. Have you ever been in this situation, when your friend sticks out his/her
hand to greet you, but you went with an embracing arm? To the hug receiver,
what runs in his mind is that: wow, so this guy actually likes me and he’s glad
to see me? He feels loved, and he tends to reciprocate, not just love, but also
respect. This love and respect are indeed what you deposit in your account in
his life. On a normal circumstance, people that love you and respect you, tends
to go (sometimes extremely) far for you when you need their help. The time you
need help from such person in the future is when you start withdrawing from
your friendship account. Unfortunately, most of us are having a red account in
our friendship. Is hope alive?
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(2) Hug gives freedom:
Has someone offended, angered or pissed you off immensely and you are left
disgusted and having a sleepless night over the issue? Or have you spoken bad
at someone (probably your office colleagues, your subordinates, children or
someone lesser than you in status or rank), and you feel this deep sense of
guilt? A sincere hug is what I would recommend. To be frank, you get imprisoned
mentally when you feel guilty about something. Freedom is not just the physical
freedom; it starts right from the mind. Freedom, most times, is a psychological
state of the mind being free of things that makes you worry, steal your
happiness or give you a sleepless night. Garner the strength, backed up with
humility, say sorry with a powerful hug. By doing that, you have completely set
yourself free.
(3) Hugs mends broken
relationship: the power of a simple, meaningful and sincere hug can never
be underestimated when trying to bring alive a broken relationship, or when
trying to mend a relationship on the brink of destruction. It still boils down
to your intrinsic courage. When you are ready to reconcile, starts with an
emotional “but sincere” hug. It speaks louder and better than the words that
will come out of your mouth. It shows how much you still care about the wounded
relationship. Not just that a hug speaks it all, it also lay a very conducive
foundational environment for everything you are about to tell the second party.
It makes him or her to be more cautiously receptive to you.
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