Many people
go through life sad only to realize they could have been really happy. There
are many reasons why a person may be sad but there is hardly any good enough
one to jeopardize our personal happiness.
The problem with being sad about
anything is that you add a sizable amount of stress to yourself other than that
which life gives you.
Life in
general is transient and the moments
lost in sadness is never regained. It
never gonna come back. Just the same way one can never get younger. This
reveals the true reasons why one should never subscribe to sadness. It takes
away moment of life that should be enjoyed, treasured and celebrated. Rather
than feel sad for whatever reason, CHOOSE TO BE HAPPY AND ENJOY THE MOMENT.
If you pause
long enough on this advice “ENJOY THE MOMENT”, you will realize it is super
smart. Enjoying the moment gives you another reason to live, makes you see something
beautiful about life. People who enjoy the moment can never in that state
commit suicide. Suicidal tendencies are functions of sadness and depression,
and an inability to value and treasure each moment life gives us.
A question
that may help you see the vanity and foolishness in being sad is this, “what
benefits can one tie to being sad or what are the rewards of being sad”? From
my own research and personal experience, am yet to come across one benefit of
being sad. All I have been able to come up with are the negatives and
disadvantages.
You may
agree with me that you do not know your last moments on this earth, except of
course you have subscribed to some unconventional means. But the average
individual which includes you and I are not promised tomorrow. If this is
absolutely true, why then should you and I not enjoy the moment? Why should we
allow our lacks, wants, desires, lack of achievement, mishaps, loss or whatever
the constants may be, induce sadness into the equation of our lives? Life
should be lived irrespective of situation and circumstances in happiness. Each
moment should be a memory hung on the walls of our heart so much that at the
end, the close of life, you will have a gallery of happy moments and a smile on
your face on your dying bed (that last moment).
You may not
be able to change many things about yourself, but you can choose to enjoy every
single day or moment life gives you. It’s purely in your hands. Make the right
choice today and experience the fullness life can give that is not dependent on
money, fame, relationships, family or friends. Enjoy the moment; it is your right.
Your life and the only way to feel alive.
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