Sexual addiction is a strong sexual
desire or urge that is difficult to control.
It is a problem over 1001 people out there battles with.
When you are addicted to sex, your normal reasoning as a human being is reformatted and subdued completely, and the urge for sex takes over you completely. After making up your mind several times, you find yourself on the bed, or on the sofa, on in that corner again. You feel
remorseful after each minutes of that pleasure, yet you can’t control it. Is hope alive?
If
you are ready to change, please try to follow this article patiently and meditatively,
as I post more episodes on it in the future…
Before I continue, I would like to
define addiction in a new dimension. Addiction is the inability of a man /woman
to control THE LAST MOMENT that
precede a pleasure that ultimately leads to a remorse or regret. So sexual addiction,
in the same vein, is defined as the inability of a man/woman to control the
last moment that precede the moment of sexual pleasure.
From this definition, you need to know
that the greatest challenge of addiction is always the last moment that
precedes the real moment of action. Yea, the last moment before you lay on the
bed with him or her; the last moment before you snuff that powder; the last
moment before you sip that alcohol. The last moment is always crucial, and thus
the first and the last way by which you can overcome any form of addiction
(sexual addiction inclusive), is by been disciplined enough to conquer the last
moment. Is hope alive?
I have seen so many writers said
before now that there are certain factors that lead to sexual addiction, such
as watching pornography (either on television or online), thinking about sex
for long period of the day to the points in which it interferes with other
priorities, excessive collections of sexual magazines, excessive masturbation,
etc.
Yea, I concur with them, but they
forget about the power of the last moment. Even if you control all the factors above,
it doesn’t guarantee you a complete freedom from sexual addiction. Curbing
these factors will only mitigate the problem from afar, but the day temptation
comes again from a close range, you would know you are still weak. The best way
to overcome addiction is by structuring your mind and body to overcoming the
last moment, which is not always easy. Besides, the principle of OVERCOMING THE
LAST MOMENT applies to and it helps in conquering all other factors that leads
to sexual addiction.
Take for instance obsession for
watching porno movies, beside the fact that you make up your mind not to watch
such movies or buy such clips again or click on the website again are not
enough, in the sense that you will always find yourself in such situation over
and over again. Is it possible for you to open a Facebook page without seeing
any nude or pornographic picture a day? So directly or indirectly, you would
always encounter such situation, but the ability to conquer the temptation when
they surface is dependent on your ability to overcome the last moment (the few
seconds) before you do it again.
You have to discipline yourself to
conquer the last moment before you insert the disc into the player; before you
enter his or her room again; before you open your laps again, before you pull
you panties again; before you click on the website again, before you get the
stimulator again, etc. Is hope alive?
Watch out for the episode 3; coming out soon.
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