topic 91: “LADIES AND RELATIONSHIP”; ARE THEY REALLY COMPLICATED? (episode 1)

“LADIES AND RELATIONSHIP”; ARE THEY REALLY COMPLICATED? (episode 1)

There is this lady I have affection for, but getting close to her was quite difficult for me and even after doing so, telling her how I feel about her fell on deaf ears on reasons best known to her…. What should I do?

Well, what I think you need to do is to first of all ask yourself this question: “why her?”, why is it that out of the several ladies you’ve had
opportunity to meet, you decided to go for her? Why is it necessary to ask yourself this question?

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This is because many youths of nowadays decide to go into a relationship without even figuring out why they really want to. Is hope alive?

Some decide to go into it, just to have “fun”, which is never a good ground to start a relationship.  Most people don’t like to hear this, but it is always the truth because when a guy, whose intention is just to have fun asked a lady out, he might be lucky to get a “a yes” from the lady at the first trial, but most ladies will want/try to decline at the first trial. So a guy, who doesn’t even know why he actually wants the lady, would get frustrated after the first trial and begin to complain that the lady is too difficult. Thus if you haven’t figured out the right answer to the question, it is better you don’t go after her …

Another thing you need to check is your method of approach. Technology has made things so easy that a guy can ask more than 10 ladies out through chats at once. Most of the reason why a lady declines a proposal is because of the way she is being approached. There is this guy I was discussing with sometimes back, and he told that he has been asking a lady for over 2 years, yet she had been declining him. During the course of our conversation, I discovered that he has never met this lady before. They met online and have been on good terms since then. Although this guy has a very good motive towards this lady, his method of approach is not matching his goal.

So as a guy who is trying to win a lady’s heart, you have to make it right, and the best way to do that is to try as much as possible to make it a direct contact. Get the correct body language and see the correct feelings. Let her know you are really serious about her. Guys are moved by what they see which is why most of them prefer to communicate through chats, but ladies are moved by what they hear and feel.

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