topic 157: Can I still ever love again? (episode 3)

Can I still ever love again?

Start with the EPISODE 2 HERE
The fact that he or she lets you down doesn’t guarantee every other person you meet in life will treat you the same way. What happen in your last relationship was only a means for you to learn something from someone or some set of people.

This kind of event should make you strong and well prepared for a better relationship that is yet to come. Trust me, if he or she was perfectly meant for

topic 151: We all have our hidden sins

We all have our hidden sins

Perfection is uncommon in humanity. We all have our dark side. The hidden secret of us we wouldn’t want another ear to hear. The atrocities we have committed or we are committing secretly, that nobody but God knows.

 The side I may not tell you, and the side you will never tell me. So who are we to hold unto the open sins of others? Who are we, that we would stand so firm and rigid on the mistakes of others as if they have committed the worst? Better to

topic 144: Placing your Pain Above your Dream!

Placing Your pain above your dream!

Three things make us give up so easily in life. It is either you just live with no dream at all, or you have one but you don’t think it is ever worth fighting for, and finally, it is because we place our pains far above our dreams.

Because of the weight and burden of the pain or the suffering the people above us or our environment subject us, we tend to put aside the dreams we carry just to exhaust the pain we bear. We put the burden of our shame, our failures, our mistakes, our pasts, our status, our abuse, etc. far above the dream we need to nurture.

The previous two factors are of high significance also, but for the purpose of this article, I will be focusing more on the last factor, which is placing your pain above your dreams.

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If your dream is more important than your pain, then you will forgive yourself of the mistakes you made yesterday, and give yourself another chance. If your dream is stronger than your pain, you will fend off the abuse and gossip of those people (friends and enemies) around you. If your dream is more important, you will not be intimidated by the words of those people that are saying ‘you can never make it in life’. If your dream is more important, you will not give up because of the failure of the past. If your dream is more important, the way your superior is treating you will not derail you off your focus. If your dream is more important, you will give no consideration to those that refuse to believe in you. If your dream is more important, you will not be carried away by critics and criticism.

Many dreams have died, some fizzled out and some crumbled along the way; not because there was no intrinsic ability to make it come to pass, but because they wouldn’t overcome the pain and the test of time. Even our Lord Jesus Christ was almost giving up, but He quickly realized the greater dreams and glories ahead of him, and ultimately he placed His potential glories above the present pains. He encountered emotional and physical pain, but He kept on pushing through the pains, knowing fully well the crown that awaits him.

Pain doesn’t last forever; it only comes to teach, leaving behind a scar.  It is always for a short time, but irrespective of the nature or magnitude of the pain, it has come to make a mark. Not just an ordinary mark, but the one that will either make you stronger and better or it destroys you forever. How your pain turns out to be is in your hand. Never give up because hope is alive.

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topic 139: 9 Mistakes We Commonly Make While Making Choice In Life (episode 4)

9 Mistakes We Commonly Make While Making Choice In Life 
Start with the EPISODE 3 HERE
6)Making choice “to” because of the outward appearance of deceitfulness:  Although both the male and female have a shared disposition of mistakes as regard this point, the ladies are more of a victim. They go more after the resources and luxury.

Most ladies have this mentality of "who wants to suffer with just any guy", but at the end they suffer brutality, punches, heartbreak, among others. They softly go

topic 110: WHAT YOU’LL BE TOMORROW, THE RESULT OF THE CHOICE YOU MAKE TODAY (episode 1)

The past has little to do in your future compared to what your today has to offer in restructuring the future. If yesterday really counts more, a person that started well is automatically guaranteed to end well. But no, that is not the case my brother!

The fact that someone finishes well is not solely as a result of his choice in the past, it is also (and most importantly) because of the choice he makes each day. It is possible to start from

topic 100: BE LIKE A RIVER, WHEN YOU ARE REMINDED OF YOUR PAST

BE LIKE A RIVER, WHEN YOU ARE REMINDED OF YOUR PAST

You can’t keep running from your past, sooner or later it will catch up with you. Just face it and fight it once and for all, rather than allowing it to come back haunting you repeatedly.

They will remind you of your past as if they have got none also. It is a pity you also remind yourself of the past as if you are the only one that has ever done things wrong in the past. Challenges will remind you of the past as if you are always doomed for

topic 38: LOOK BACK AND GAUGE YOUR LIFE (EPISODE 1)

Ever heard the words look back? What comes to your mind? Probably warning that something bad or dangerous was coming from behind you or maybe just a silly joke or trick on you by a naughty friend. Whichever the scenario above, the phrase “look back” either saved you or made no difference at all.

In our today contemporary society, “Look back” is more often than not, seen and described as a negative action because it is seen to be holding into one’s past, not letting go, being limited by our past actions and a core reason why progress cannot be made as well as a sure reason we cannot fully live in the present. Rather than look back, we hear words such as: “don’t look back, let go, forget the past, grow up